Love is unconditional
Unconditional love
Did you ever had a breakup? When you ever had, why did it? Cause you had a mismatch? A mismatch of attitude, habits, likes, character and whatever the reason might be, did you really love the other? If you did, why did you love? Is it because he/she is smart, beautiful, loving, caring, responsible? If you meet another person who is with the same qualities with love and care for you, will you love them too? If you meet some other better person than before, does your love shifts towards them or will you loose your interest in your previous mates? Well, this thing actually happens in real life. Don't you agree? If you don't, then you must be afraid to accept that your are in a conditional love, what really is not a 'love'. You just "like" those attributes like you choose a mobile phone with decent features every times when new models comes into market. Is that 'love' is to be chosen every time for a better person? Then obviously 'breakup' comes in. Well, to those who faced it, don't feel so bad about it, it's not really "love" that left you. You just enjoyed each others company all these days. Your relation is like a vacation friendship, someday or the other, they have to go back to their old place to find a new friend to enjoy again. Your relationship is conditional, just chooses the best of your kind like beautiful, smart and ****. So lets say that you are 'dating'. The person who left you or proposed breaking up the relation for some reasons could never be able to accept a person completely in their life. They like to keep shifting with conditions and reasons.
Life may be all about choices. But not every time. There are few things where we shouldn't make choices. That what makes us different from an animal. Animals do have change of relationship with change of location and circumstances cause they don't have the sense of differentiation and values and their need is sexual desires and reproduction. So, don't put yourself in a relation in the name of 'love'. Cause it is something that happens between the people with no conditions and reasons. It is something that makes us want the other with a great commitment. It is something that makes us feel always special about the other, ever time, every where. It will be like love of a mother, which has no bounds, and care of a father, that never ends. You can't show love like a son to another woman like your own loving mother, and respect like your caring father. You can't wish for two mothers, or two fathers at a time. So, folks, love is unconditional. It can't be broken by anything. As somebody say, it is a "divine" think that is gifted to the mankind and is eternal. So, don't confuse your mutual enjoyments with love. There is no need to "breakup". Just reduce your daily texts to each other, and spending money on each other, and more importantly smooching and beyond that. You can be normal friends again. To be loved is an awesome and greatest thing in your life cause it will never leave you ever. You might find love someday and you would be ready to give up anything for that. You may be too matured to be in such a great commitment. Good luck.
Did you ever had a breakup? When you ever had, why did it? Cause you had a mismatch? A mismatch of attitude, habits, likes, character and whatever the reason might be, did you really love the other? If you did, why did you love? Is it because he/she is smart, beautiful, loving, caring, responsible? If you meet another person who is with the same qualities with love and care for you, will you love them too? If you meet some other better person than before, does your love shifts towards them or will you loose your interest in your previous mates? Well, this thing actually happens in real life. Don't you agree? If you don't, then you must be afraid to accept that your are in a conditional love, what really is not a 'love'. You just "like" those attributes like you choose a mobile phone with decent features every times when new models comes into market. Is that 'love' is to be chosen every time for a better person? Then obviously 'breakup' comes in. Well, to those who faced it, don't feel so bad about it, it's not really "love" that left you. You just enjoyed each others company all these days. Your relation is like a vacation friendship, someday or the other, they have to go back to their old place to find a new friend to enjoy again. Your relationship is conditional, just chooses the best of your kind like beautiful, smart and ****. So lets say that you are 'dating'. The person who left you or proposed breaking up the relation for some reasons could never be able to accept a person completely in their life. They like to keep shifting with conditions and reasons.
Life may be all about choices. But not every time. There are few things where we shouldn't make choices. That what makes us different from an animal. Animals do have change of relationship with change of location and circumstances cause they don't have the sense of differentiation and values and their need is sexual desires and reproduction. So, don't put yourself in a relation in the name of 'love'. Cause it is something that happens between the people with no conditions and reasons. It is something that makes us want the other with a great commitment. It is something that makes us feel always special about the other, ever time, every where. It will be like love of a mother, which has no bounds, and care of a father, that never ends. You can't show love like a son to another woman like your own loving mother, and respect like your caring father. You can't wish for two mothers, or two fathers at a time. So, folks, love is unconditional. It can't be broken by anything. As somebody say, it is a "divine" think that is gifted to the mankind and is eternal. So, don't confuse your mutual enjoyments with love. There is no need to "breakup". Just reduce your daily texts to each other, and spending money on each other, and more importantly smooching and beyond that. You can be normal friends again. To be loved is an awesome and greatest thing in your life cause it will never leave you ever. You might find love someday and you would be ready to give up anything for that. You may be too matured to be in such a great commitment. Good luck.
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