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Everywhere it's the same

There are different kinds of love we experience in our life. Love of mother, father, brother, sister, friends, relatives, boyfriend, girlfriend, wife, son, daughter. Though it emanates from different sources, it serves a single purpose, that is, wherever it may be coming from, all we feel is that special warm feeling with un-timed affection and selfishness that you belong to them. It was shown to us in different forms by different people at different situations. When your mom backs you up for your mischief, when your father gives you money though he knew you would squander, when your sibling supports your foolish decisions, when your friend scold you for your wrong, when your crying baby runs into your arms, when your spouse takes you into their arms when you are distressed or when everybody here keeps compelling or advising you every time to be the best. Everybody have their own way of expressing their love on us. It depends on how well we can understand it. We can't point out a...

Love is unconditional

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Unconditional love Did you ever had a breakup? When you ever had, why did it? Cause you had a mismatch? A mismatch of attitude, habits, likes, character and whatever the reason might be, did you really love the other? If you did, why did you love? Is it because he/she is smart, beautiful, loving, caring, responsible? If you meet another person who is with the same qualities with love and care for you, will you love them too? If you meet some other better person than before, does your love shifts towards them or will you loose your interest in your previous mates? Well, this thing actually happens in real life. Don't you agree? If you don't,  then you must be afraid to accept that your are in a conditional love, what really is not a 'love'. You just "like" those attributes like you choose a mobile phone with decent features every times when new models comes into market. Is that 'love' is to be chosen every time for a better person? Then obviously ...

Being possessive is love

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Do you ever feel that your partner is possessive about you? Do you feel that your girlfriend/boyfriend is so broad minded that he/she will never misunderstands you or feel jealous by the way you move with the people of opposite sex around you? Well, if they are such a broad minded people, it is so easy for them to say "let's breakup" things in a business fashioned way. In vivid to say, the people in relationship will have two kinds of feelings. Having and Loving. These two are completely different from one another. For example, children sometimes develops strong bonds with some people or with some things, and they always stick with them whenever or wherever, and they love to do it, what we will say an unreasonable affection and what they find is unbounded happiness in being with them. Which is called "being possessive", cause they feel that those things are existing only for them and they are not intended to loose them at any cost whatever happens. When our th...