Being possessive is love

Do you ever feel that your partner is possessive about you? Do you feel that your girlfriend/boyfriend is so broad minded that he/she will never misunderstands you or feel jealous by the way you move with the people of opposite sex around you? Well, if they are such a broad minded people, it is so easy for them to say "let's breakup" things in a business fashioned way. In vivid to say, the people in relationship will have two kinds of feelings. Having and Loving.
These two are completely different from one another. For example, children sometimes develops strong bonds with some people or with some things, and they always stick with them whenever or wherever, and they love to do it, what we will say an unreasonable affection and what they find is unbounded happiness in being with them. Which is called "being possessive", cause they feel that those things are existing only for them and they are not intended to loose them at any cost whatever happens.
When our thoughts gets matured, people tends to change from being possessive to choices. This phenomena is like selecting a thing from a group of some best things, like getting an Iphone or a Mac book. Until they afford buying them, they don't bother about getting them lost. This is called "having things", like we say we have the best of a kind, if we loose it, we can buy or get another. This is not the case with children, whatever they choose is the best and no other thing exists like that in this world, however the thing they had is not the best, they feel proud to have them. This is possessive.
The act of having things is going with the people too. They choose the best of a kind(girl/boy) cause they want to have one, they start the relationship, and at some point of time, the things goes wrong with one another like a home screen button malfunction in Iphone, they want to have a new one leaving the old one. They will keep on changing things till they find their legitimate boundary(marriage). They just want to have things. So, whoever use it and whatever they do with it, they don't care it much cause they already have a choice of change, whom we call in society as the "broad minded" people in relationship. Is this what you want being in relationship? Do you want to be treated like a test drive car before they find other good one?
What if you find your boyfriend/girlfriend is being possessive? Is it good? I say, yes, you are super lucky if he/she is possessive on you to limits. When you move intimate or talk with other people may make your partner jealous and uneasy, he/she might want to pull you towards him/her or they may get angry or sulking, whatever it is, it's just because they love you more than you think. You might shout at them "why are you being so possessive?", all they had to answer is "you are mine and for me and a part of me. Being away from you is being away from happiness and I am so selfish to have that happiness always with me and I can't let other use my precious things". This is what it is. It is lucky to have  a partner who is possessive about you, cause what they feel about you is like a part of their body or life, not like a thing that they wear when needed and let others use it when they don't need it.
Like children shows the pure love with pure heart, loving other person is a way of being possessive about people and wishing to stay together always and what ever happens. Thus Being Possessive Is love.

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