IN PRESENT THROUGH PAST

In present through past

How past effects our present

Time is memories of past and thoughts of future. It has its own form in different fields. Somewhere it is disintegration of matter and in another place it is just a flow of our perceptions. Whatever it is, it always affects us but the reverse is not possible. There are two ways in understanding it. First is in relation with physics and the second is in relation with normal life. I am going to choose the latter one for now. You can read my blog "time travel possibilities explained" here.

Time illustrated in life as past, present and future. We can't divide these three into three distinct features of life but it's a connected continuous stretched thread with a perceptible end, moving point and invisible end, where disturbance at a single point will carry it's affect along its length. It's inevitable. When we compare it with our life, the perceptible part is past, invisible end is future and moving point is present. Like a tip of unleashed whip, the tip of the moving head is always directed by the forces that is transferred to it by the chord. The same way, everybody's life is directed by the conscious past. The reason for mentioning conscious past it that, we are not driven from the time we are born to certain conscious point. The point when our brain starts reasoning, correlating, judging, cognizing and cerebrating. So, when we want to generalize what really happens in human life? In one way, we can explain it in a simple way as, our brain, which can't do any other thing than feel, boss and think, keeps on experimenting events and stores it's results in the form of memories for appropriate actions. Thus every action of our present is directed by an experiment in past. One can't say that the influence of the past in our present is nil thus present giving a reasonable action.

This blog will present how past will affect a person to himself and a person with others.

You might have listened some of these misguiding locutions that people often say, like, PAST IS PAST, I DON'T CARE ABOUT YOUR PAST, BYGONES BE BYGONE etc. These are the sentences that people often use to show their compassion or broad-mindedness and to accept someone, whom others consider as odd, into their life. How far they are true? When somebody say PAST IS PAST and you don't care about it seriously? Can't somebody live without thinking or not caring about what happened in somebody's(the person you know or care) past? Can you? Whether it's a pleasant or unpleasant thing, nobody can really erase the memories of past cause 80% of the time we close our eyes, our brain  retrospect and contemplates on events of past and the remaining 20% is on cognition and planning. The act of retrospection is related to this cognition and planning to make it sensible and appropriate. We can't predict the certainty of a thought or action without preceding instance which means a retrospection. So, every sensible life has it possible events connects with the past. One cannot say that they will ignore the past and can perform independent actions.

Can one forget the people they loved or hated? Can one forget the people who insulted, hurt or treated them with contempt? Can one forget the secret things they shared or did together and act like nothing happened when they face each other in future? Can one forget somebody's past and meet like strangers? Can one forget the lamentable or undesirable things their dear people did and act as if nothing had happened? Any of the above things will hold true if one experienced them has inconsiderate or phony  character. For instance, you hurt a person personally deep in the past. After few years he/she became your classmate and you didn't recognize each other and became good friends like newly met strangers. A few days later, you both become aware that you both were old buddies who hurt each other deeply. Will you both be the same after knowing the truth and act like nothing had happened? Another instance being, you got a boyfriend who is so friendly with girls and also with other people of course, and one day, it happened to know that your guy was a Casanova in past. Now he told you that he has changed and you believed and accepted him gladly cause you love him. So, the next time when you look at him talking with some girls, will you get the same casual talk feeling after knowing truth about your boyfriend? Or about your girlfriend who used to be a coquet? There is another thing called addictive behavior, means one can't stop doing few things in life. It's hard for them to overcome on companionship, loquacity, dipsomania etc. will have some affects on their decision making in certain situations though they abstained themselves. These will have a profound impact on people from mid teens till early 50s or late. Cause it is when our egos work reasonably strong. If it is about other person's past, our ego can't just accept that is undesirable for us and will not let it go smoothly. It will show its effect in our character, thoughts and behavior towards them. If it is about one's own past, all undesirable things we did or addictions we used to have will affect us in ideal decision making producing undesirable effects. Every small mistake we do may ruin our position, our relations, our status, or may be our whole life. The severity increases on how untraditional or asocial you behaved. When you did it, you will have to answer to your past like a convict.

One must aware of the fact that, if somebody accepts us, they should accept our present and also our past and we should be ready to face the consequences for the mistakes we did. Nobody can just state that I DON'T CARE ABOUT YOUR PAST or PAST IS PAST cause everything happened with us will show it's effect. If somebody really doesn't care about your past in a relation, they just got inconsiderate character and that relation will not stand long. For an individual himself  not considering their own past doesn't usually exists. The fact is that, if a person hides his past before somebody or something, it's a mistake. It may be disastrous. When you make a new beginning, let the new thing accept what you were and then give you a chance to change. It may be a person, a job, or a place. Every secret you keep may blow you into piece and makes you irretrievable. Let the world know who you were, from where you were and let yourself be consumed and there you shall seek true freedom. Let yourself be far away from what you don't want to be not by hiding or ignoring it but by defeating with what you are now.

LIKE EVERY NEW STEP NEEDS THE POWER, IT ALSO NEEDS IMMUNITY TO STAND LONG. LET YOUR NEW LIFE BEGIN WITH WHAT YOU WERE AND WHAT YOU SHOULD BE.

Our KARMA can't be vanquished and it will haunt you all along your life. Make sure you make your KARMA with good and sensible deeds.

-Good Luck