Tips for happy life

YOU WILL NEVER FAIL UNTIL YOU WISH FOR SUCCESS. 
We have the people who think that nothing ever will go in their favor and whatever they wish for will never come true, a cause for the huge disappointment among teens and youth and the primary source of pessimism. We wish for many things in life and sometimes we absolutely want them. This subtle difference between this wish and want will decide how much it will effect the person when it will not happen. Practically every person first wishes for things. When the things go in the way that their wish may come true then that wish will turn into a want, means, expecting that it should definitely happen and the hopes will raise on it. When that particular wish turned want fails to happen, we go back in the same way with "nothing ever happens whatever I wish for". 
Well, a wish is something that we could only expect to happen. No logic or reality may work on it with the end result being little or no disappointment on failure. When we start wanting things, like, I want this to happen then greater expectations built on it with plans for future, what if that comes true? We start building our own logic for the positive result of that want and so, when that want fails to happen, it is not just something you wanted  will crash but the whole structure of hopes, logic, plans, future built on that want will be collapsed like a disaster. A disaster is not something we could easily handle, then comes this complaints, a medicine to recover from the disaster, "nothing ever happens that I wish for", for something that you actually wanted, not wished. Why should we have a bring ourselves a disaster. Stop wanting and start wishing as you can't ever predict what might happen next. Let the things flow as they were and do the right work with no expectation then no disappointments, sorrows or crashed hope will come to you. Imagine things like a dream and you always stay happy over your wishes. 
Intensity of wanting is proportional to the intensity of happiness when you succeed and intensity of sadness when you fail. If you doesn't want doesn't mean zero happiness, if the result is positive, well, it gives us some good feeling but if it fails, there will be little disappointment sometime but anyway we never expected it tube success, we start to work again for desired result. Expect and work for the best, but never expect for success. This is only for those who want to be aloof from this dejections, sorrows, pessimistic thoughts and also failures. 
DO BEST. ENJOY THE WORK 

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